Help Me.


Names and faces have been taken out for the privacy of people….

But I’ll have you know ‘SHE’ is a friend of my boyfriend’s, and HE is my boyfriend. He has not told me anything about ever seeing or talking to this girl, and there wasn’t even the slightest mention that anyone was over at this house at 4am. I had a nightmare, and even though we aren’t friends on facebook, I found this…and it made me sick.

I know what the situation probably was. She’s a friend of his. It also said she was in immense pain. She probably went over to his place when she was in shambles, and he let her take some dabs of rolled her a blunt or whatever, to help with her pain. I feel that nothing happened, but the issue is that he DIDN’T TELL ME. And THIS is the result of that. Me freaking out because he didn’t tell me. Why it matters, is cause he holds me to the standard of telling HIM everything. I feel this is something that definitely should’ve been told, so a situation like THIS wouldn’t have happened.

Followers, please help me to see this in perspective. As his girlfriend, and someone who has been hurt by him before, I’m pissed off as all hell. Please give me your opinions on how you would react, if I’m overreacting, if I’m UNDERreacting.

I told him we have to talk, and I asked point blank why he didn’t tell me there was a girl at his house at 4am.

Please help me stay calm…I’m one step away from a total breakdown.

What do you think?

Ideas on what to do when I’m with him?

Hello my wonderful followers!

This worked out well for my birthday when I was getting suggestions on what to drink… so… over spring break, in March, I will be going to see my baby for a week. I didn’t have a list last time on things to do so we pretty much laid in bed and slept the whole time we had together (which was actually just heavenly for me). This time, though, I’d like to do things…

He works till like 7pm and he’s around the Washington Seattle-ish area. So…..what should we do when he gets off work? He gets two days off, so any ideas on what to do on those days off?

I know he wants to take me to dinner one night, and I want to go whale watching on one of those days off, so I’ll be around the San Juan Islands so we can spend the day exploring around there, one of those days… but maybe if you guys have better ideas on things a couple should definitely try out, please let me know!

Or…what are things you would want to do with your SO when visiting? If you were in Washington, what would be on your to-do list with your loved one?