February 2012
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semperfidelis1996 asked: Ok, so first, I must say...I'M IN LOVE WITH YOUR BLOG!!! I have a question for you. Is it crazy that after only 2 months of being in an LDR with my boyfriend that I want to be with him for the rest of my life? Is it crazy that as soon as I'm 18 I'm gonna move to where ever he is? He's going to be a Marine, so I don't know where he'll be, but I know that where ever he...
Anonymous asked: I'm 17&i have a kid. I honestly feel like i'm never going to have a boyfriend ever. I'm not that worried about it now but i'm just scared i''ll never find that one boy. :/
morethaneverylivingthing asked: I need to rant for a second. I'm sick of being judged for my age-gapped relationship. She's 15. I'm 21. Sure, it seems wrong but seriously, it's not gonna matter when we're 18 and 24, respectively, is it? No, it isn't. I'm sick of society judging me because I'm a man, thinking I'm a sick fuck only interested in "fucking" underage girls. THING...
Anonymous asked: My boyfriend was suppose to come visit for Valentines day and I was superdy duper excited but then things got messed up and now I don't know when I'll see him because I doubt my mum will let me go see him alone and I have no friends to go with. It's hard man. I love him but I'm such a physical person and I can't even imagine his hug because I've never felt it.
myblogisahorcrux asked: I haven't had contact with my boyfriend of 6 months for over two weeks. I understand that he is very busy with basic training and I am not upset at all. More so I want to know that he is doing well. I am used to not seeing him in person because of the distance, but the not talking is new and I hate it. I didn't realize how much I depended on him until I wasn't able to talk to him....
heartshapecookie asked: why i don't have the courage to get mad at him for some reasons like we don't talk often cause he's too busy with his work. -sigh- i miss him so much. i really wanted to meet my man. He's currently stationed in UAE. :(
Anonymous asked: It makes it so much harder when he's doing other things while skyping me and not paying attention.
Anonymous asked: If anyone has like a really tech savy bf/gf, they should create an app for iPhones/Blackberrys where two time zones can show up on the lock screen. How cute would that be for people in ldrs! <3
jessbk asked: I just got out of my LDR. The boy i loved lives back in Texas while I am here at the united states military academy. He has done nothing but constantly accuse me of lying and doing things behind his back. He doesn't believe I love and care about him. It hurts me to know he thinks that I am the kind of person to go and cheat and hurt him. It has hurt me to the point where I hurt myself and the...
theydocallmebea asked: ohgooosh, your last post. :(( that's saaaad. i hope that's just a phase. i love how you love!!
melancholicdeathofme asked: Dear Jessica and Garry, after stumbling upon your tumblr, I'm almost embarrassed to admit that I do drop by at a daily basis. The quotes and pictures personifies every sentiment I have been feeling over the last couple of months. Thank you for supplying me with a daily dose of inspiration! My bf and I are separated by 7000 miles and a 7 hours time difference. Over xmas and new years last yr,...
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Anonymous asked: I applied to the Disney College Program for California just to be an hour away from my long distance boyfriend instead of 2000 miles away. I cried my eyes out when I was rejected
Anonymous asked: I met him for the first time in person 282 days ago, and I get to see him in 19 days. What a year it's been...
theseamonkeyhasmymoney asked: Hai! I just found your blog. I'm in a LDR relationship with my wonderful boyfriend Austin. He's in the Air Force (: We've been together for a year but it's only been long distance since August when he left for BMT. But I just wanted to say I absolutely love this blog, and I love all the gifs you use when you answer questions/stories/etc. They make me smile. So keep up the good...
shot-at-redemption asked: Tell your 16 yr old anon that she can take a flight w/ one stop from O'Hare to Croatia. She just has to use the airport code ZAG when looking up flights.
him-n-i-r-us asked: SO...here's my silly little confession, sans our story. Fact is my boyfriend is here visiting, he's at his moms right now. I'm so glad to have spent the last two days with him, but he's leaving tomorrow, back to the navy across state. I'll see him in the morning, but right now, I'm already tearing up. I know he'll be gone again tomorrow &It's kinda...
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Anonymous asked: This is kinda random, but I REALLY need your help. I've been crying all night. My love is across the Atlantic Ocean, and I'm in Chicago. I wanna go to Europe, but my parents won't let me go alone since I'm only 16. Do you know of ANY Airlines that have a direct flight fom Chicago, illinois to Zagreb, Croatia. I've been looking all night & I'm losing hope. no...
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Anonymous asked: I met this guy online about 5? months ago. and we aren't technically in a LDR bit I've fallen so hard for him. We talk whenever we can. I got drunk at a party over the past weekend and sent him a text about how bad i wanted to meet him in person and the other night he told me he wanted to be with me more than anything and anyone in the world, but we aren't together. I don't...
Anonymous asked: I've loved a boy I met on Tumblr for over a year, and he's loved me for most of that time too. We didn't officially get together until recently, and all too soon he told me the distance is too much. He was crying every day, in school and all night and couldn't deal with it. We still talk every day all day just like we were when we were together, but it still hurts. He lives...
Anonymous asked: So I'm meeting my girlfriend finally next Saturday. It will be our 2 month anniversary 4 days after that! I'm freaking out. Like i'm honestly terrified. Give me some ideas o maybe somethings I should bring with me? I'm already bringing her 30 letters I've written to her, a sweatshirt and a tshirt :) Ugh, I'm extremely nervous!! What are some things I should stay away...
Anonymous asked: So I was scrolling down and I can relate SO MUCH to what you said about your boyfriend being a bad texter, etc. Mine isn't really good at communicating... haha. And I've gotten used to him being inconsistent with that because I know it's not intentional. Then when we're actually together..ahh. (:
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Anonymous asked: My best friend lives a few states away. We would talk every night and never get sick of each other now he has a girl friend & I'm weirdly jealous. He's also lying to me, and he just got out of jail and won't tell me why he went. Please don't say I need to get over him, because I think I'm in love with him.
Anonymous asked: Kittengirlbeth made me feel so much better! I'm in Holland (Netherlands) and my love is in Canada. So a reversed story. I felt so crazy at times and hopeless... He wants to come to Holland but it's so hard to get a Visa for people from outside of Europe... Well... I guess I just wanted to wish you two good luck, because your story is so much like ours.
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Anonymous asked: If you get a message that is asking you to just reply privately, for one reason or another, could you reply privately and not publish your reply to the message on your blog? I would like to ask for your opinion on something, but I don't necessarily want all of your followers to read about it, you know? Thanks!
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kelliebabby asked: so, im in a LDR and i have been for 8 months. its been the best relationship ive ever had and i love him more then life its self. butt, i do have some concerns that hes talking to his ex that he dated for a year in the past, and he talks to this other girl but they claim theyre 'bestfriends'.. but i dont want to lose him, am i being to over protective or what should i do about it? thanks...
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Anonymous asked: My boyfriend plans to quit his job on a cruise ship and move to Australia, but I just got promised a job on the same ship for next year (which is my dream) by the head of personnel. I hardly get the chance to talk to my boyfriend because he is always at sea, and Im worried he will quit before I get the chance to tell him. Im also worried that he's done with the cruising scene so might not...
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Canada/Holland LDR Story
Me and my LD S.O have been together off and on for the last year and a half, most recently for the last four months. I’m in Canada, on the western side and he’s over 5000 miles away in Holland. We try to make sure that we talk everyday if not, every other day, via facebook, skype, chatango and random text messages.
I’ve never felt like this with anyone before, though, at 24...
littlelindsey1117 asked: About the college LDR, I'm in one, as well. I'm a freshman in college in Louisiana, and he's a senior in high school in Pennsylvania. In August, he's going away to basic for the USMC. And I just wanted to say that the distance is that hardest thing in the world, but he and our relationship are worth more than all the miles in between us. Even with college and the marines, a...
ohhayemmie asked: i ADORE, CHERISH, LOVE, CONNECT WITH, VISIT ALL THE TIME, your little tumblr. my boyfriend, jake (army), is four hours away & i know that isn't TERRIBLE but with us both working& me in school, it is roughhhhh. plus, he deploys soon. UGH. you are just a big ole help! thanks!
Anonymous asked: OMG! I just got confirmation he's coming back here to stay! I am so excited I literally ran around my dorm screaming! But now that I settled down I got really nervous. We didn't really have much interaction before he left and now that he's coming back I'm afraid it's going to be sooo awkward. What if I'm a bad kisser? What if we don't have anything to talk about?...
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Anon: Multiple Parts and Worried....
First, before I reply….I only got two of the however many parts… so please, if this is your confession, please resend all of it again and I’ll reply. :]
I’m boring him? I mean I can’t help it that my focus is school and because of that I don’t live a very exciting life. He’s very well-read and always has interesting things to say, it makes me feel super...
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Anon: Iowa/Europe Puppy Love
OK. So I’m in Iowa & he’s in Europe. The whole entire Atlantic Ocean separates us, along with a 7 hour time difference. I went to my home; Bosnia, in 2005. I was 9 years old then, a little girl. & When i met him, it was little puppy love.
We had a little “thing.” You know how it is. and then i promised him i would be back next year. i was 9, what was i supposed to...
Anonymous asked: My boyfriend and I have been together 3 years and I guess the distance has finally got to him. He asked me for a break but I know he's not coming back cause he's the glue that holds us together. I don't know how to cope with him leaving. What should I do?
Anonymous asked: Do you have any mementos from your relationship that are extremely precious to you?If my house burned down one day, the first thing I'd scramble to save is his hoodie.
Anonymous asked: Does your boyfriend know about/go on this blog? xD I'd be pretty blushy about it if it were me >.<
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Tumblr, I need your help.
theskydragon:
Yeah, yeah, I had to put that there. Sorry. Please stop scrolling for a second, if you can, even if it is just to scroll to the bottom.
I am going to start reaching out for help, for a very good reason. And I’ll try not to make the explanation too long and all.
Six years ago, I met this amazing girl. I’m going to call her Kuma. She is a few years older than me, but that’s never...
Anonymous asked: I had the worst valentines day possible. My boyfriend said we could have a skype date then at the last minute decided he was too tired to then got mad at me when I was disappointed. He does this so much and I've spent all night crying and I just want him to want to see me. He doesn't think the holiday is important so he didn't see why it meant so much to me. It just hurt me so bad.
Anonymous asked: okay, i just want to know if anyone else is as awkward as i am with compliments or explaining how much they love their significant other. today i tried to tell him how much he means to me which somehow turned into "you make my organs feel like they are imploding". nobody that awkward? k understandable.
Anonymous asked: I sent an ask a few days ago about my boyfriend and I's first Valentine's and out Skype date,and today he messaged me on fb and asked what my 'plans' were for later because he has this great girlfriend and he was planning on Skyping with her since he can't take her on a real date, and we talked for an hour and we got to actually hear each other say 'I love you',...
decadentbitch asked: I asked my boyfriend to be my valentine and he said yes. So later we'll be gaming, skyping and spending time together. <3
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